Server's Message to Newlywed Who Refused to Tip Goes Viral

The ticket instead read “He’s my husband, find your own. Good luck"

When Jessica Morris finished serving a newlywed couple dining at her restaurant to celebrate their honeymoon she didn’t expect to find a receipt with no tip and a note from the woman she served.

Morris, who had just returned to work after celebrating her honeymoon with her husband, who is also a server at the restaurant, said she had served the newlyweds and another couple Saturday and at the end of the evening dropped off their check, NBC affiliate KFOR.com reported.

But when she returned to the table after the party had left, she found a receipt from one couple with a $4 tip and a receipt from the newlywed couple with no tip. The ticket instead read “He’s my husband, find your own. Good luck.”

Morris reportedly posted about the situation on Facebook as a “PSA from all servers.”

“I don’t typically talk about work this way, but this needs to shown/addressed,” Morris’ post on Facebook read. “Mainly because it’s hysterical but partially because I’m offended.”

The post continued to detail the incident before going into an open letter to the woman behind the note, who she identified as Jenny.

The post was later deleted but only after it had been shared more than 50,000 times. NBC5 took a screenshot of a cached version of the deleted post and reached out to Morris, but she did not immediately respond to a request for comment. 

Read the full message below:


I don't typically talk about work this way, but this needs to be shown/addressed. Mainly because it's hysterical but partially because I'm offended lol

Anywho, today I had a table of 4 come in. Two couples. The one told me they were there to celebrate part of their honeymoon, which I replied "oh I just got married last month, congratulations." I assumed they heard me, and we proceeded with the whole "what can I get you" yada yada yada.

Well, as anyone SHOULD know, waitressing is a personable job. To make money you have to be nice, and show you personality. As all of you should know, since you know me, I'm a personable, sarcastic a**hole in the nicest way possible. So ofcourse I let that shine in my job, and at EVERY table.

So, this lady (Jenny) and her husband place their order and she asks me what my name is. I tell her "Jessica" she responds with, "oh, we don't really like that name. Can we call you Jess" and I laughed and said "yeah, you can call me anything you want. I'll even respond with a**hole." In which her husband laughs and proceeds to call me that throughout the whole experience we had as server and guests.

I assumed everything was fine, because they were laughing and having a good time. Well I cash out their check, tell them have a good night and to come back. When I come back from singing "happy birthday" to another guest, the couple and company have left, and on one ticket they tipped me $4, well Jenny decided I did not deserve a monetary tip, so she wrote me a nice note, with a $0 tip saying "he's my husband, find your own. Good luck. :) "

And I want to add, Jenny stole my one pen, which she knew was my last because I had apologized that I only had the one to share between the two tickets at the table.

So, Dear Jenny,
I would like you to know, the server that was in the section across from mine, that I kept talking to and checking on throughout the time of you sitting at my table IS MY HUSBAND. Which I found on my own, and looks better than yours. Also, I would like you to know that I'm sorry MY HUSBAND treated me to a cruise for my honeymoon and not a restaurant. As well as, MY HUSBAND would never let me feel so insecure that I would feel the need to write such a terrible note to a server and make them feel the way you have.

So Jenny, here's a life tip for you from me, your insecurity as a woman is heartbreaking. Have pride in yourself and your relationship with YOUR husband to where you don't need to put another down to bring yourself up. Especially a server who lives off her tips and needs them to help her husband pay bills. Also, Jenny, I hope you like the pen, because it's my present to you. One NEWLYWED to another.

P.S - my husband said you can sit in his section next time that way you won't have to be so worried about your husband "flirting" with a server :). Maybe you'll see his ring a little better than you saw mine.

Signed, Jessica
The woman you offended by thinking so lowly of, that I would attempt to flirt with a man who is with his wife.  

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