Northwestern Sex Toy Demo Questioned

A human sexuality professor held optional presentation after class

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    A psychology professor known for pushing the envelope last month invited students from his human sexuality class to observe a non-student naked woman being stimulated with a motorized sex toy on stage.

    Did a Northwestern University human sexuality professor go too far when he held an optional live-sex presentation on campus grounds? 

    On Feb. 21, Prof. John Michael Bailey, a psychology professor known for pushing the envelope, invited students from his human sexuality class to observe a non-student naked woman being stimulated with a motorized sex toy on stage. 

    About 120 students attended the demonstration, which was curated by Chicago sex tour guide Ken Melvoin-Berg, according to the Northwestern Daily student newspaper.

    The University declined to answer questions about the demonstration from NBCChicago and referred our editors to Bailey, who was unavailable.

    The session was billed as a question-and-answer session about fetishes with a demonstration at the end, said Pratik Shah, a senior math and economics student. Students were warned of the nature of the class several times, and some walked out before the demonstration. 

    "Then, just out of nowhere, the girl just takes her pants off, takes her shirt off, takes her underwear off," Shah said.

    Shah didn't stay the whole time, because he was with some people who were uncomfortable and wanted to leave. But he says he can see both sides of the story.

    "As long as there's been proper warning, the people that stay shouldn't feel offended," Shah said. "They're choosing to see what they're seeing."

    Bailey's class is a popular one at Northwestern, attracting 622 students this semester. After-class panels such as the one last Monday are offered as educational addendums to the class.
     
    To see an image of what the device might look like, check out Gawker.

    Update: Prof. Bailey's full statement:

      I teach a large (nearly 600 person) human sexuality class at Northwestern University.  During class I lecture about the science of sexuality.  Many days after class I organize optional events.  These events primarily comprise speakers addressing interesting aspects of sexuality.  This year, for example, we have had a panel of gay men speaking about their sex lives, a transsexual performer, two convicted sex offenders, an expert in female sexual health and sexual pleasure, a plastic surgeon, a swinging couple, and the February 21st panel led by Ken Melvoin-Berg, on "networking for kinky people."  These events are entirely optional, they are not covered on exams, and I arrange them at considerable investment of my time, for which I receive no compensation from Northwestern University.  The students find the events to be quite valuable, typically, because engaging real people in conversation provides useful examples and extensions of concepts students learn about in traditional academic ways.
       
      I recruited Ken Melvoin-Berg (Ken MB henceforth) because past speakers covering similar topics had not been very interesting -- they had merely given powerpoint presentations, of which students get too many already.  They were also unwilling to answer questions about their sex lives, which defeated the purpose of that particular presentation.  I had met Ken and believe he is articulate, open, knowledgeable, entertaining, and yes, kinky.  Sexual diversity is surely a reasonable thing to address in a human sexuality class.  I certainly had no hesitation inviting Ken MB, and I asked him whether he could recruit others, as well, to give the presentation.  (I especially thought it would be useful to have a woman as well as a man.)
       
      On the afternoon of February 21st Ken MB and colleagues arrived while I was finishing my lecture, on sexual arousal.  I was talking about the female g-spot and the phenomenon of female ejaculation, both of which are scientifically controversial.  I finished the lecture and invited the guests onstage.  On the way, Ken asked me whether it would be ok if one of the women with him demonstrated female ejaculation using equipment they had brought with them.  I hesitated only briefly before saying "yes."  My hesitation concerned the likelihood that many people would find this inappropriate.  My decision to say "yes" reflected my inability to come up with a legitimate reason why students should not be able to watch such a demonstration.  After all, those still there had stayed for an optional demonstration/lecture about kinky sex and were told explicitly what they were about to see.    The demonstration, which included a woman who enjoyed providing a sexually explicit demonstration using a machine, surely counts as kinky, and hence as relevant.  Furthermore, earlier that day in my lecture I had talked about the attempts to silence sex research, and how this largely reflected sex negativity.  I have had previous experiences with these silencing in attempts myself.  I did not wish, and I do not wish, to surrender to sex negativity and fear.
       
      Ken MB and friends spoke to the class for a while and then informed students they were about to perform their demonstration.  The presentation seems to have lasted about 5-10 minutes of their hour-long presentation.  While I watched, I experienced some apprehension.  None of this apprehension had to do with the possibility of harm to any observer, and none of it had to do with a lack of education value.  As I alluded, some experiences are educational and interesting in non-traditional ways.  Rather, I was worried that there could be repercussions that would threaten the valuable speaker series that I have built over the years.
       
      Student feedback for this event (I routinely feedback collect for all events) was uniformly positive.  Although most students mentioned the explicit demonstration --  which they enjoyed and thought was a singular college experience -- most also said that the most valuable part was engaging in a dialogue with Ken MB et al.
       
      Do I have any regrets? It is mostly too early to say.  I certainly have no regrets concerning Northwestern students, who have demonstrated that they are open-minded grown ups rather than fragile children.  I have not enjoyed the press, because I have assumed that reporters will sensationalize what happened and will not provide my side.  (A welcome exception to this, mostly, was the Daily Northwestern article.)  I suspect that my Dean is not enjoying this publicity, and I do not like displeasing my Dean.
       
      To the extent that this event provokes a discussion of my reasoning, above, I welcome it.  I expect many people to disagree with me.  Thoughtful discussion of controversial topics is a cornerstone of learning